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“Do one thing every day that scares you.”
― Eleanor Roosevelt
What is your biggest fear?
I have quite a few fears. They range from pretty silly ones – I’m scared of the dark…
…And then sometimes I’m scared to face feelings that are not too fun to experience.
Anger. grief. loss. frustration…the list continues…
So just avoid it…right?
What happens when we avoid negative emotions brought up from a past experience…
We become disconnected and withdrawn
We narrow our range of existence and lose contact with friends
We try to control our world to stay “emotionally safe”, and then outside world becomes dangerous, further alienating us.
How do we move through a negative emotion or event?
How to move through it:
Remember, you don’t know what you’re capable of until you’re tested. There’s no way of knowing until you decide you’re going to take that leap. Did a negative emotion or thought scare the living daylights out of you? Are you run by that emotion, run by fear?
Let that fear transform who YOU are. Let that fear be your compass on your beautiful detour.Fear is a valuable tool in a Detourist’s resiliency toolbox.
Watch my TEDx Talk on how I transformed my fear into more fuel to travel all of my very scary “detours…”
Remember – it’s the twists, turns and difficulties in your path that can transform you and your journey. Those fears, hardships and detours are what makes you human and…YOU.
That’s why we share our stories. We share our “detours” instead of running from them. We share to cheer each other on in our journeys. We share to encourage our fellow Detourists to reach that beautiful clearing – perhaps a different one than they planned for themselves, but perhaps an even more beautiful sight to see.
How you can help another Detourist today:
Do you have a friend who you think needs way more credit than they give themselves? It’s OK to ask someone you care about, “Are you struggling with negative thoughts? Is there anything you just want to talk about?” Or give them some helpful resources.
Think about that quote from Eleanor Roosevelt. What’s one thing you can do today that scares you?
What support do you need to do that?
Don’t be afraid of your fears. They’re not there to scare you. They’re there to let you know that something is worth it.”
― C. JoyBell C.
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