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“Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.”
Happy New Year! (Are you ready?)
As we approach the first month of 2017, I wish you joy, health, community and deep breaths of gratitude – you’re here, you’re awesome and you’ve made it this far!
So what now? Check out my some past posts I’ve done on manifesting joy. But to get your started…
Five Experiences to Welcome in 2017.
1.) Practice Compassion.
Do a random act of kindness today by wishing Happy New Year to one Facebook Friend you wouldn’t regularly chat with. Tell someone in your life how grateful you are for them that you might not go out of your way to thank.
Need some help understanding compassion? This TED Talk by Krista Tippet explains it beautifully! You can also read a piece I wrote for her On Being blog about finding faith in the ICU. Or heck, watch my TEDx Talk – the best way we can find compassion for others is knowing that we’re ALL traveling detours together.
2.) Start a vision board.
A vision board is just a visual manifestation of whatever you want for yourself this year. You can paint it, cut out pictures from magazines and just tape them together, draw it, make a cartoon, a collage – really anything goes. This help you visualize what you long for, what your goals are, and where you see yourself in 2017. Sometimes it helps to have that image literally in front of you to look at, as a visual reminder to help you work from the outside in.
3.) Do an easy, three-step meditation.
This will help you focus your 2017 intentions on your vision board.
Step one: Focus on your breath, don’t change it, but notice it. If it were a color, what would it be?
Step Two: Notice any sensations that accompany your breath. What do you physically feel in your body?
Step Three: notice the rhythm, texture, temperature of your breath. How does your breath resonate in your body?
4.) Eat something spectacular.
Do you need an excuse to bring out your inner foodie? Think about the very first nourishment you’ll give your body in 2016 – this is a big deal! Remember, you are what you eat. So think about what you’d like to be this year, and then think about what food would really make your body smile from the inside out.
P.S. Food can help us cope with anything…did you know when I couldn’t eat, I started a chocolate business just so I could play with candy?
5.) Gratitude, gratitude, gratitude.
You know me with my gratitude. But why not? When we know what we’re grateful for, we know what we’re about. We bring out the best in ourselves, in our world, and in each other. Go on, practice your ABC’s…Letter that piece of paper from A to Z and think something from 2015 you’re grateful for for each letter.
Stare at that list and relish how much good there already is in your life.
Now look at your vision board and savor how much more you have to strive for and look forward to.
It is a wonder to be alive on this earth. Any year, day, time, place moment.
You are here. And that is why you are incredible. Never forget it, even when times are tough. No one, no detour, no nothing can ever take away how very capable you are.
I hope that 2017 is filled with so many detours, twists and turns in your life, you get completely lost, completely sidetracked, lose yourself unexpectedly and find yourself on that beautiful, twisty turny journey. Remember – you’re a DETOURIST. You got this!
Safe, beautiful New Year travels, Detourists!
Truly,
Amy, your Detourist Field Guide
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January has been off to a challenging start but I am staying hopeful, after all it’s only the second week. After I get my finances in order, I’ll be able to let out a huge sigh of relief. I need to practice far more compassion and do more acts of kindness. I’ve done a lot of focusing on myself and can now open myself up again to everyone else. I’ve been really focused.
I’m open to this journey and for all the year has to offer. I picked up some new breathing techniques this past weekend and I look forward to practicing more of it with my meditation.
These have been great reminders for me! As the new year has started, I’ve been a little overwhelmed which sometimes turns into discouragement. Practicing compassion is a strength that I have, but I just have to remember to keep it even when I’m feeling overwhelmed and discouraged. I really love the idea of starting a “vision board”. I’ll definitely start that and I think it’ll really help me feel at ease. I also love the meditation. I practice both meditation and prayer which has been my best help. And lastly, I believe gratitude is KEY for me! If I’m not thankful for at least ONE thing, then I won’t be able to get through my day as productive as I could have if I had a grateful attitude and heart that day.