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    Kevin A.
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    Too often LGBT youth are reminded that the church or whatever it may be is not the place for us to be who we are.
    For some of us, our stories with religion end with rejection, abuse, trauma, just to name a few.
    And I can understand the frustration and anger because quite frankly, a lot of us feel betrayed by society and our religious intuitions.

    Just Monday another case was brought before the Supreme Court in New Jersey by conservative Christians to challenge the ban on conversion therapy in the state. Luckily the Supreme Court rejected this case which of course is a big win for the LGBTQ youth who may not have a voice when faced with gay conversion therapy.

    Growing up, going to church seems ever so normal until we begin to realize that popular theological interpretations of religious doctrines do not view us as moral people.

    At some point, I stopped believing… wasn’t sure if I was an atheist or not… but I was very angry, not only at Christianity but at all religions that perpetuate societal violence against LGBT people.

    Somehow, I had absorbed a lot of damaging lies. For a few years I had no intention to renew my faith because the message I received and the people who embraced it didn’t make much sense.

    I was forced to accept that being gay was a choice and conversion therapy was effective. In my perspective, back then, there was just no logics, no rationale for the lies that I was told.

    Among the lies:

    You can’t be christian and gay

    The idea that the Bible, as it is, condemns homosexuality is an old age rhetoric that was never true.
    “You are a reprobate and you are going to hell!”
    Leviticus 20:13 and 18;22 are all too familiar like the beating stick that was meant to make us straight. Religious fanatics who are only as religious to the extent that they hate gay people, based on their standards, stoning a man to death can divinely resolve one’s sexuality. Needless to say, it was taught that gay people are not welcome in the faith.
    What the pastors failed to tell us was that the Bible does not address the subject of homosexual acts between committed gay couples, because the ‘concept’ of a person being homosexual did not even exist at the time the Bible was written.

    God hates the sin but loves the sinner

    First and foremost, according to many theologians, this saying is not found in the Bible in so many words.
    Many religious conservatives believe in a magical spell that could remove the sexual orientation from the person.

    The implication here is that the ‘gayness’ and the beholder are two different things.
    Not True!

    “All Religions condemn homosexuality”

    Notwithstanding that Christianity does not explicitly reflect the bigotry of many of its followers, and bearing in mind that both reform and conservative Jews are usually accepting, there are still many other religious groups that are affirming or accepting of gay people… such as Hinduism, Buddhism, and Sikhism, among some of the most popular.

    Altogether, we all have different faith and we are entitled to our beliefs but it’s ungodly to use God in the name of bigotry. It’s senseless to believe that the intention of a loving God, for this world was to punish humans for things beyond their control.
    Not true!

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