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  • #8243

    torry22
    Participant

    Isn’t this the truth?! When I finally started to love who I am, I felt bad for those who could not simply be happy for me or with me. Hate is such a useless emotion or trait to have in my opinion. I think we should be lifting each other more, rather than putting others down.

    <3 Torry

  • #8247
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I chose this as my quote for today because I feel that so often as young adults we are looked down upon because we are too young or “lack life experience.” I feel as though maturity does not come with age, and success comes with hard work not with a number on a scale.

  • #8266

    torry22
    Participant

    The more aware I became with detail, my surroundings, my choices etc., the more I became positive. However, negativity still plays a factor in life; we can deal with that negativity very different when being aware and conscious. Not everything is a crisis to me anymore, and I can deal with things head on.

    <3 Torry

  • #8284
    Allison Kernan
    Allison Kernan
    Keymaster

    My quote of the day is, “Pray before you overthink”.

    It’s easier said than done sometimes, but it helps remind me to center myself before getting lost in my mind. sometimes I create a whole forest of thoughts in my mind that weren’t even necessary. I tend to jump to things and already make decisions, without even talking to my ultimate guidance first: GOD!

  • #8290
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I know as a human being that I make mistakes and that I have been in really dark places before. On the contrary, however, I know that I have come a really long way from where I was two, even one year ago, and I am extremely proud of the progress I’ve made. Sometimes we have to endure a lot of pain and hardships to get through to the other side and see ourselves succeed triumphantly, but in the end it is so worth it. #mygrowthgameisstrong

  • #8302
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    This is my quote for today because I want to be able to work so hard and have so much dedication that I make such an impact with my career that everyone will know who I am and what it is I stand for. To me it will not be about the money, or being recognized by the most prestigious of places or people, but rather all the people I will have reached by the time I am through with my work.

  • #8306

    torry22
    Participant

    Allison,

    I love that quote- “Pray before you overthink”. Thanks for sharing!

    Luz, you always have the best quotes!

    Thanks for sharing, ladies!

    • #9497
      chenieceo
      chenieceo
      Participant

      I have an upcoming appointment that I am very anxious about and all I can do is think about it! After seeing this quote I know that I will just pray about it!

      • This reply was modified 7 months ago by chenieceo chenieceo.
  • #8324
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I too really like the quote “pray before you overthink”. I find myself stressing about things that may not even ever happen. I could keep myself calm so much easier by saying a quick prayer.

    My quote for the day is: Almost everything will work again after a few minutes if you just unplug it for a few minutes… including you.”

    I think this is very important because with so much chaos constantly going on around us, there must be some time dedicated specifically for winding down and relaxing our minds. With technology going up in every direction and kids refusing to communicate face to face anymore, I feel we are going to lose a grip on reality if we don’t disconnect from everything around us, including electronics, and simply allow ourselves time to breathe and focus on all that is good.

  • #8339
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    My quote for the day is:

    “The inhale doesn’t matter if the exhale isn’t there.”

    To me this is so vital to everyday living, for if we want to take a deep breath and improve on certain things, what will the point be if no difference is made or noted? In order for a breath to make its full impact, one must do the full exercise and both breathe in and out to gain the benefits. When we only do half of the work, nothing will change and our body will not benefit. As is life- if we work on something trying to just get by, we will never reap any benefits. Meanwhile, when we give more of ourselves, we will see the impact we are making for the greater good.

  • #8354
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Often times, I find myself making a complete fool of myself or being the silliest me I can possibly be, something I find extreme comfort in these days since not too long ago I was frightened to let loose and be my authentic self. In those moments, my boyfriend and other loved ones may look at me with such a perplexed look upon their face, often ashamed to be seen with me. Also, many times when I am being very loud within my apartment, I am told to lower my voice because others are concerned for what others may think based on what I say. I love repeating the same thing back to them, which is: “they don’t pay my rent!” Why am I going to allow someone who doesn’t have any impact on my well being or have any right to determine my emotion because they aren’t doing anything for me, take away my happiness? Forget that! I’ll be loud, giddy, obnoxious, joyous, happy, funny, annoying, embarrassing, etc., until I am doing something that I know is causing harm to someone else. Until then, I am not going to let ANYONE, or ANYTHING, dull my sparkle.

    • #8368
      livhanna
      livhanna
      Member

      Great quote! This is definitely the formula for happiness and confidence in today’s society. It is so important to be yourself and to not be ashamed of it. No one likes every person they meet. All you have to do is find the people that do like you! Sometimes it is hard to not care what people think about you. However if you focus on the people that do love you, the others will slowly fade out of your life. Thanks for sharing!

  • #8381
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Life may take you where you least expect it, but have faith you are exactly where you are meant to be. Many times I have wondered if making the choice to work and not finish college was the correct decision. Nevertheless, when I see the positive impact I am making on others’ lives with the work I do I know for a fact that this path is the right one, even if it isn’t the ritualistic- graduate high school- go to college- get a job-routine. I am making a difference and I am where I need to be.

  • #8430
    Rai
    Rai
    Keymaster

    Wish I could double tap and like this! Everyone’s journey is different… I’ll see you at the top Luz! I am super proud of you for being able to realize your importance and your path… that’s huge! Do your thing and keep shining. You’ve got it!

  • #8432
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    It is often hard to realize we have the power to get unstuck from situations that seem like they are permanent when in reality they really aren’t. By viewing things from a different perspective, we allow ourselves to be open to an entire new realm of possibilities. After all, we are the only ones that limit ourselves, besides that, the sky is the limit.

  • #8459
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    We have the say in when we choose to give up and let our battles win. We can either live life hopeless, or live each day feeling invincible. The power is all in our minds, and what we truly believe is reflected in our everyday attitudes and actions. Be more than what anyone said you would be. Be greater than you ever thought you could be. Accomplish the unthinkable. Simply be great!

  • #8533
    Rai
    Rai
    Keymaster

    “The power is all in our minds and what we truly believe is reflected in our everyday attitudes and actions.” !!!!!!! YASSSSSSSS! to that! Thanks for that motivation, you really just boosted me up and reminded me of why I do what I do and why I am the way that I am! It’s all a mind game… you are what you think! I hope this encourages people to start thinking more positively and to get back out there with a new mindset, You can accomplish anything you put your mind to, make it happen!

  • #8706
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    This quote is so short and sweet, but it is so accurate and important as well. By first believing that we are capable of accomplishing anything, we have already set ourselves up as triumphant over any scenario. I am truly a believer in the power that comes from our thoughts and our tongue, and that what we confess will become true. The more we state that something is possible, the closer we will be to accomplishing it. First believe it, then achieve greatness!

  • #8754
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    No one can paint a picture of what our personal success can look like, only we can define that ourselves. Set out break your own records and meet your own expectations, leaving behind the mold that society has set for us from the beginning.

  • #8763
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    When you notice that nothing seems to be changing in the world around you, decide to be the change you wish to see in the world. Most often, the change we desire to see can best be influenced by our living, breathing example.

  • #8785
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    On this road to recovery, we will triumph and we will succeed, but at the same time we will have some of the hardest days of our lives. Although sometimes we may think that we need to be strong and hide what we are truly feeling within us, the reality is that we can all sometimes be hit with difficult situations, but can come out standing tall on the other end. It is okay to feel every emotion within our body, because that is what makes us uniquely human.

  • #8790
    livhanna
    livhanna
    Member

    I love this quote. Shows that it is okay to have a rough day or even a rough year! The sky will eventually clear up and things will get better and it is important to emphasize the moment the storm disappears and the sun comes shining through!

  • #8815
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    This reminds of the song that goes: “One way or another, I’m gonna find ya, I’m gonna getcha getcha getcha getcha…”
    I feel like all we really have to do is focus on our end point. If you are currently going through hell, that’s exactly what you do, just keep going on through it until you reach the other side.

  • #8848
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    “Right now you might be in a situation that you think you won’t survive but six months ago you were in a situation that you didn’t think you’d survive and two years before that you were in a situation you didn’t think you’d survive and the point is you will always surprise yourself and you will always make it through.” 🙂 🙂 🙂

  • #9044
    Kevin A.
    Kevin A.
    Keymaster

    “Fear makes the wolf bigger than he is.” – German Proverb.

  • #9059
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Starting over from scratch is one of the most difficult types of processes I’ve had to endure, especially after being accustomed to being with someone and feeling a certain way for so long. But I must understand, that is NOT the way to live. Humans DO NOT live like that. I DESERVE love, respect, to be honored. And although it hurts for now, I know my growth will feel better in the end than the entire process or any previous negative experiences.

  • #9170
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    The first step on the journey to healing is acknowledging that we are SO worth the fight, that we are SO worth the effort to even want to get better and leave behind all things that cause us pain. Once that is understood, we open up the doors to become relieved from everything that has been tormenting us.

  • #9175
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Sometimes the hardest thing to break is a pattern that we are used to living by day in and day out. The key thing to remember is that although it may be HARD, it is NOT impossible. With effort and practice molding ourselves to change old behaviors can happen, and we will be able to reap positive benefits from our changed behavior.

  • #9187

    sydneydel
    Keymaster

    My quote of the day is from Walden by Thoreau. The book ends with:
    “There is more day to dawn. The sun is but a morning star.”
    It reminds me that there are more good things coming. So let’s all stay positive! 🙂

    • This reply was modified 8 months, 3 weeks ago by  sydneydel.
  • #9253

    torry22
    Participant

    I am loving all of these quotes!!

    My quote of the day today is:

    “Defeat is not the worse of failures; Not to have tried is the true failure.” – George Edward Woodberry

  • #9284
    Kevin A.
    Kevin A.
    Keymaster

    Taking risk is scary but if you want to get ahead you have to learn how to step out into the unknown. I feel empowered to challenge myself to do the things I once believed I couldn’t.
    “Stop worrying about what you have to loose and start focusing on what you have to gain.”

  • #9430
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Although it is much, much easier said than done, the first step to getting out of a cycle one has been in for a long period of time is to make the conscious decision to stop making excuses and go after the feeling of wanting to improve a situation. After all, a dog can chase it’s tail for only so long before it realizes that it is attached and then it too moves on to something else.

  • #9433
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Let’s say no more to the things that cause us anguish, stress, worry, and feelings of unhappiness! Let’s choose to be happy and joyful today!

  • #9464
    chenieceo
    chenieceo
    Participant

    Surviving takes strength.

    • #9493
      chenieceo
      chenieceo
      Participant

      “Today is a gift from God – that is why it is called the present.”
      ― Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

  • #9489
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I feel like society has always set the standard of success being someone with the most money, the fanciest material things. By me being able to stand my ground in my morals and beliefs, being able to show others that I am responsible, capable of being educated and growing, being reliable, respectful, having manners, etc., that is what true success entails. Money can only dig so deep!

  • #9490
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Believing that we can or can’t accomplish something begins with something as simple as a thought. If we wholeheartedly believe we are going to be able to be triumphant over any situation, we will be able to do just that.

  • #9527
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I’ll never get tired of stating this: At times we feel like we are having the worst day of our lives, and that no matter what happens there’s no way it’s been any worse. And then poof! I somehow manage to get through the day, as hard as it was, through tears and hard moments, and I am on a positive path again until boom- here comes another bad day. Now I feel like this is the worst it’s EVER been. It’s not. I’ve learned I’m going to keep having bad days, and they are going to feel like it’s the worst I’ve ever felt in my life. Moral of the story- learn to ride the wave, push through the hazy moments and know that the best thing created was one day after the next. Tomorrow will be better. 🙂

  • #9536
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Years ago, when I was about 15-16 years old and I was sitting at DCF’s Riverview Hospital in Middletown, CT a psychiatrist that had just finished evaluating me told me that I was “lethal” and that I would never be able to live a life outside of an inpatient psychiatric hospital setting. That’s what she thought. Yeah, I had a difficult time growing up adjusting to my home life and being able to deal with my feelings because of it, but that did not mean that I was going to be stuck in the same cycle of treatment and inpatient settings, being a ward of the state and doped up on massive amounts of medications for my entire life. I am here, I am able, capable, and well enough to make conscious decisions for my future and for mines. I did get better, and I will continue striving to do so. Some days are struggles but I know I can win those too! 🙂

  • #9552
    chenieceo
    chenieceo
    Participant

    This month remind yourself that life is not a series of random events, but a pathway of awakening. This pathway ensures that you’ll never grow old-you’ll just keep growing. Only you have the ability to customize your OWN life cycle. Be thankful for this wisdom and know that it is time to get going!

  • #9578
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    “When someone you love moves on to a new journey do not cry because they are gone, but rather pray for their success because if they return it means they have failed.”

  • #9594
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Keep working hard and striving to make the best of the circumstances you have and sooner or later even those you have clashed with in the past will notice your efforts!

  • #9655
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Be aware of those we spend our time with, for the people we surround ourselves with will either serve as a benefit or a source to bring us down in the end.

  • #9656
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    For all the times that we were told we wouldn’t be able to become anything productive or the when we were hurt beyond compare, rise up and use your transformation as a story of success.

  • #9678
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I will choose to rely on myself in order to change for the better. I do not need approval from outside sources in order to feel empowered to be the best me I can possibly be. After all, self improvement begins with the self.

  • #9679
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    As I move through my everyday life, I will remember that fear may be an underlying emotion for many other feelings that may appear in everyday instances. I may feel like I am angry, sad, even feel hate toward something. But I will use this lesson to dig deep and understand that sometimes fear is the real cause for my emotions and then I can move forward from it.

  • #9702
    Kevin A.
    Kevin A.
    Keymaster

    “Ships don’t sink because of the water around them; ships sink because of the water that gets into them. Don’t let whats happening around you, gets inside of you and weigh you down.”

  • #9730
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    When I think that all the doors are closing, I will look around because I know that there are always other options.

  • #9745
    Kevin A.
    Kevin A.
    Keymaster

    Love that quote Luz. I came across this one today

    “Be fearless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire.”

  • #9758
    Kevin A.
    Kevin A.
    Keymaster

    “”Either you run the day or the day runs you.” Anonymous

  • #9791
    Kevin A.
    Kevin A.
    Keymaster

    “Leadership is not wielding authority, it’s empowering people.” Becky Brodin

  • #9815
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I learned that in life I needed to go through certain obstacles in order to be where I am today. I wouldn’t have had anything to accomplish or survive if my life had been a piece of cake up to this point, I would have had everything handed to me and not have had to fight to be where I am today. Being a survivor of my circumstances does not only stop there, it means I am a survivor of life.

  • #9854
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    If we spend our entire lives focusing on the negative side of everything, when will we ever have time to dwell in all that is good? There is good in everything, even if the result is not immediately attainable. In the end, even painful experiences can result in a lesson learned or some sort of growth.

  • #9857
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    “Don’t let the life discourage you; Everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was.”
    — Richard L. Evans

    Even on those days where I feel like I am not yet where I want to be in my life, I will be grateful and patient in my journey because I can recognize that I am a long way from where I began. 🙂

  • #9866
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I don’t know how many times I was told by psychiatrists, clinicians, etc., that I was going to be stuck in the same cycle of self-harming behavior for my entire life. I can even remember a woman who called me “lethal” after she was done evaluating me while I was at an inpatient hospital once. Being able to beat the odds everyday of my life and prove them as well as anyone else who has ever doubted me wrong is one of my greatest satisfactions in life. Just because I couldn’t at one point, doesn’t mean I’m never going to be able to do it.

  • #9919
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    The fact that we’ve been able to make it to this point in our lives means so much! Not everything has been a piece of cake before this point, but we’re still here! Congratulations to all of us!

  • #9920
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Sometimes we simply just have to be content with what we currently have and who we are before we are blessed with more. 🙂

  • #9944
    Kevin A.
    Kevin A.
    Keymaster

    “Recharge, rethink and reset.”

  • #9945
    Kevin A.
    Kevin A.
    Keymaster

    Love your last quote Luz.

  • #9957
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I feel like this quote is so on point! At times I find myself stressing out over things that have never even happened yet, or that are so far out of my control that there is nothing I can possibly do to alter their outcome. It is in those instances that simply breathing and allowing myself to remain in the moment helps me better understand that the mind is indeed powerful. I can set out to achieve and not achieve as much as I believe within my mind that I can. 🙂

  • #9987
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Sometimes we just have to wake up, stand on our own two feet and declare into the universe that today will be a better day then yesterday. Let’s believe that we have the power to control our daily outcomes, and anything we confess can come true.

  • #10025
    Kevin A.
    Kevin A.
    Keymaster

    “Don’t foget to love yourself firt.”

  • #10114
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    We all fail, we all struggle, we all have problems, some of which we wish no one knew about. At the end of the day, though, what matters is that we take those hard-earned lessons from the mistakes we’ve made and learn from them.

  • #10281
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Getting to where you want to be in life takes a lot of hard work, determination, and much patience. In the end though, this long process will help you grow along the way and will be oh so worth it! 🙂 <3

  • #10289
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    When people say that there is great power in the mind, that is definitely the case. When you set your eyes on something, you must first believe that you will accomplish it and see it through. Then, and only then, will you be able to accomplish greatness.

  • #10329

    egbumblebee
    Keymaster

    “Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know before you learned it.” by (Maya Angelou)

  • #10357
    Carl Peterson
    Carl Peterson
    Participant

    Wave goodbye to the past you've got your whole life to lead (August Burns Red)

  • #10364
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Shifting our thinking can be a hard thing to do, I know from experience. Nevertheless, when I have focused more attention on being grateful for the things I do have rather than what I am lacking, or when I remind myself of the good in situations that may be hazy, my day seems to go so much better. In my life, I have found that shifting from negativity to being positive can definitely shift an entire mood, day, experience, etc. It’s all in how we think about things! 🙂

  • #10565
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

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    I’ve definitely been struggling lately. Times like this, I know that it’s not so much the effects that external factors have on my mood, but rather internal thoughts and feelings I already possess. I’m striving to get better, to feel better, to find my internal motivating factors once more, because recovery is definitely NOT linear and lately it has just been tough. The light at the end of the tunnel will be there soon enough though, because in the end, it ALWAYS ends up showing up. #justkeepswimming

  • #11076
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

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    I’ve been told more times than I would probably like to admit that I should “trust in the process”. But in all honesty, there is a lot of truth to that phrase. Whenever I see myself struggling the most, especially at night, I just force myself to shut off my brain and go to sleep and in the morning I automatically feel better knowing that I survived the night. Everyone’s struggles are very real, I know that because mine sure are. Nevertheless, we’ve made it this far, let’s keep surviving through the madness! 😜

  • #11099
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    This quote speaks a lot to me, because of the fact that in our everyday society, young adults and even those younger tend to try to fit into a certain mold that is established by those who are outside of ourselves. Nevertheless, if we are focusing all our efforts on trying to fit into this mold perfectly, are we really leaving any room for our own growth, exploration, self-love, etc.? My TRUE job as a young adult on this earth is simply to make the best out of everyday, and to learn to love myself more and more as my journey continues to unfold.

  • #11103
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Some days will be good. Some days will be great. And on others, the struggle will be really intense. In all reality though, THERE’S ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT!!! I struggle, you struggle, Einstein and Batman struggle. The idea is to recognize that you are struggling, identify the reason behind it, and move through it no matter what. Just keep swimming, no matter what life throws at you! 🙂

  • #11106
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    The act of adulting can definitely be difficult. There is no rule book, there are no right ways to be successful, so we just sort of make things work and live hoping to make it through this amusement park ride we call “life”. Here’s to just living and taking things slow, and learning to figure things out one day at a time. 🙂

  • #11150
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    With the first week of the year almost over, have any of you thought about what things you would like to work toward this year? Just keep this in mind when setting your goals: there is always room for improvement in anything we may be doing!

  • #11151
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Being able to be grateful for everything and anything that I currently have is the only way that I know I will be blessed with greater things in the future. Gratefulness comes from within, it is the act of truly showing appreciation for the things that may sometimes even seem silly to think twice about-things like toilet paper, non-toxic water, electricity. Today and everyday, I will choose to be grateful for everything I have.

  • #11200
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    At times there may be choices that we are confronted with that may be difficult to make, but in the end they may be the most beneficial ones for us. Always trust your instincts, and know that you know yourself more than anyone else.

  • #11201
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    People will come and go, trends will be popular and will soon fade. Nevertheless, when you have worked for something for a long time and finally accomplish it, the feeling of success will last forever.

  • #11202
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    We only get one life, and it definitely goes by very quickly. Take those chances you’ve been wanting to take, dare to take the next step on your journey, and wait to see all of the great things that will come your way.

  • #11270
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    At times, it may seem like you are fighting against the current, but I assure you that you are meant to be here no matter how hard your present battle may be. Keep pushing through your circumstances, because eventually, you will make it through to the other side!

  • #11271
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Sometimes we have to go through the bad before we get to the good. The point is though, that eventually we do end up getting to the good. Ride those negative experiences through to the end because tomorrow may be better!

  • #11295
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Sometimes, things are all about how you look about them. We have the power of either choosing to be positive when things get rough, or being negative and staying stuck. Which will you choose to do?

  • #11297
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Although some days may be harder than others, recovery is definitely still within reach. Ask for help, get support, and continue to move forward in your life!

  • #11298
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Just one choice can mean a completely different lifestyle. A more positive, healthy, happy, life can be yours if you choose to change certain aspects of your life! #chooserecovery

  • #11299
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    We can become absolutely anything we desire to be in this life. Reach for your goals, focus on the end result, and achieve greatness!

  • #11300
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    We may often wait around looking for a sign to appear before we decide to make a significant choice in our lives. Nevertheless, it is always the correct time to make a choice that will better a situation!

  • #11301
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Sometimes all we need to keep going in our everyday life is a little reminder that we are doing the best we can and that everything is going to be okay! Here’s a good example of just that:

  • #11307
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    As blunt as it may seem, sometimes we just need to hear the harsh reality. No matter how crappy things may seem sometimes, we can be just one step or significant decision away from being on an entirely different path. Don’t quit now!

  • #11308
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    There will be many instances in where it will be really hard to notice anything good because of the amount of negativity that surrounds us. In those instances, choose to be the light that shines bright wherever you go and show that there is hope no matter what obstacles may be present.

  • #11309
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I am nowhere near perfect, I fall, I make mistakes, and then I get back up and try not to repeat them. I am grateful for the amazing life I have, and those who I am blessed to know in it.

  • #11354
    chenieceo
    chenieceo
    Participant

    Quote “You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have”

    Everyone has an idea how strong they are but you never know just how strong you are until your put into a situation where all you can do is be strong!That is when we find out how much we can take and that we can overcome.

    • This reply was modified 1 month ago by chenieceo chenieceo.
    • This reply was modified 1 month ago by chenieceo chenieceo.
  • #11389
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    This quote definitely speaks to me, because sometimes I struggle with staying in the moment and being able to focus on what is going on in my present environment. Some things such as grounding and myself, feeling my feet on the floor and focusing on the details of my surroundings can help me when I go through these experiences, but I am still thankful that I am doing better than I once was.

  • #11439
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Focus on moving forward and all that is positive, and you will attract positive things only. Do not distract yourself with things that are in the past, because once those are left behind, it’s all about what lies ahead!

  • #11440
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    On my hardest days when I feel like I am struggling the most with innermost thoughts and feelings, the going definitely gets tough. When I don’t want to give in to bad urges, and I feel too weak to keep fighting, I force myself to go to sleep because I have come to understand that I will have overcome the feeling once the morning arrives. #fightthegoodfight

  • #11441
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    With crazy trends such as the tide pod eating challenge emerging across social media and for so many reasons more, it so important to be a leader and set our own trends. We do not have to conform to things that we do not feel comfortable with, no matter what society makes us believe!

  • #11459
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Enjoy every second of your life, for tomorrow is never guaranteed.

  • #11468
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    It does no good to bring anyone down. Life is about growth, and helping those around you to grow and prosper as well. We rise by lifting others.

  • #11469
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Growth is painful, and the ability to learn from our past mistakes takes time. In the end though, our challenges will make us stronger individuals and more compassionate humans.

  • #11490
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    “You don’t have to be great to get started, but you have to get started to be great.”

    No matter what it is you want to accomplish in life, you must first put your plan into motion in order to see any progress.

  • #11495
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Absolutely nothing can stop us from being able to share our innermost talents with the world. Love who you are, love who you are becoming, and enjoy the process of growth we experience each day.

  • #11496
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    It doesn’t matter how many times we fall down or fail. What is truly important is that we are able to shake off the dirt after each stumble and keep moving in the right direction.

  • #11507
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Once we decide what it is we want to accomplish and we start on the journey to achieve our goal, we must remember not to get stuck along the way. Some days will be harder than others, but keeping the end goal in mind will help us move forward and shake off the hard times.

  • #11508
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Getting to where we want to be in life takes much hard work, determination and sacrifice. In the end though, it will all be worth it.

  • #11509
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Let’s live our lives fearlessly, full of such positivity and love that our entire beings reflect our morals and values. Be the same you everywhere, and let the world love you entirely.

  • #11533
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    I am in charge of my life. Only I can make the decisions that will make it better or worse. I am responsible for my well-being. I am in control.

  • #11619
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    When we really desire something in life, we must fight and work hard for it no matter what obstacles may present themselves. It is better to fight for a while and in the end achieve what we wanted than to miss out on a great opportunity that may never come around again.

  • #11620
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Keeping our focus on our future goals will help us forget about the obstacles and struggles that have deterred us from accomplishing our missions in the past. Keep pushing through it all, and remember that you will reach your dreams as long as you keep your eye on the prize.

  • #11621
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    There is always something good in every situation. Whether we receive a life lesson, or we let something or someone go, we must even be grateful for the hard things. #powerofpositivity

  • #11622
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    We all go through things in life, some may be harder than others. The great thing is that many times those hard things we endure help us get to the places we need to be.

  • #11623
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    In society, others will always believe they are entitled to have an opinion about you. The thing is though, we don’t have to let what other people think of us define who we are, or what we become. Let your true colors shine, and always be uniquely you no matter what others think. #standout

  • #11652
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Don’t ever let anyone outside of yourself dictate what you can and cannot do. You are in control of you life and at the end of the day, you are the one that will be putting in all the effort to reach your goals. 💪🏼😊 -Luz ❤️

  • #11653
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Money cannot buy everything. When you finally have something in life that you are happy with that has not been bought somewhere, that is when you have found true happiness.

    • This reply was modified 2 weeks, 3 days ago by Luz.Feliz Luz.Feliz.
  • #11655
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    These are some awesome life lessons to keep in mind. I can personally relate with number 5 a lot, making mistakes. I often want everything to be perfect, but in all reality, I will only know what my best will be if I have done my worst at some point.😊

  • #11656
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Focusing on the good everyone has to offer instead of the things they need to work on is one way to make the world we live in a more decent place. We all know we have things about us that may not be the best, and when we are constantly reminded of them that doesn’t make anyone feel good. Instead, choose to lift someone up today by telling them how great they are doing with something! ❤️

  • #11657
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    This quote reminds me a lot of life, because we cannot control circumstances in life outside of ourselves such as other people and their actions, but we can definitely control how we interact with the world and the impact we have on it. ❤️

  • #11658
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Some things are meant to be focused on more than others. As a person who overthinks like crazy, I find this rule quite helpful when I feel my thoughts spiraling out of control. If something isn’t going to be of importance in the long run, I’m going to choose not to spend time dwelling on it and driving myself bonkers. ❤️

  • #11701
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    We must first think we will be able to achieve something, and then take the necessary actions to fulfill that goal. Every task completed begins with us believing we have already accomplished it!

  • #11702
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    This applies for all aspects of life. Go into every situation you face as if you still have to prove yourself, that way, you will be confident that you will be doing the best you possibly can in every situation.

  • #11703
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Sometimes the phrase practice makes perfect doesn’t really apply. Sometimes, we need to be able to realize that things will not change until we change them ourselves or we learn that there has got to be a major shift in our mentality.

  • #11704
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Lead by example. We cannot expect others to be a certain kind of way if we aren’t that way ourselves first.

  • #11762
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Sometimes in life we will go through things that will be hard to understand. Nevertheless, we will go through these things in order to come out as stronger individuals on the other end.

  • #11763
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Life should not be a competition against anyone else, but rather a competition against our old selves. Let’s strive to be better than we were yesterday, because in life there is always room for self improvement.

  • #11764
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    We can do whatever we wish to do in this world, but keep in mind that all of our actions have consequences to them whether they are good or bad.

  • #11765
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    It’s okay to disagree with others! Tell me what’s on your mind, and why you don’t agree with me and let’s have a discussion about it. I will not learn anything from you if you simply agree to everything I do. Let our disagreements be a learning opportunity for both the of us!

  • #11766
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    We may believe that the things we do will have no impact in the long run, but in reality it’s the smallest contributions that have the biggest effects on the greatest of things.

  • #11767
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Throughout life, we are going to have MANY people that we don’t like and that don’t like us either. Nevertheless, what is truly important is that we value ourselves and understand that we do not need other people’s approvals to know we are already incredibly worth it.

  • #11787
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    “The richest man is not he who has the most, but he who needs the least.”

  • #11834
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Sometimes we need to be able to look at the bigger picture. Focusing on our end goals and keeping sight of those instead of the problems we may be facing to get there can help us reach our dreams faster.

  • #11836
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Finding even an ounce of good in every situation can go a very long way. Gratitude has helped me acknowledge that I have so much, and I have come so far.

  • #11837
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    These are some great rules that I will be sure to remember to apply to my everyday life. I can definitely relate to number 6, because my happiness is what I create myself.

  • #11838
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    If we want to get somewhere or accomplish something, we have to keep working hard at it no matter what it is. Don’t give up because you can reach your goals!

  • #11839
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Working towards our goals takes hard work and perseverance. Just like this quote states, we have to be able to keep moving in the right direction in order to see progress. Some days may be tougher than others, but once you see that end result in your hands, it will be all worth it!

  • #11840
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Throughout our lives, we will go through many obstacles. The amount of times that we are able to get knocked down and stand back up will determine how strong we truly are.

  • #11841
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Pushing through our obstacles and taking care of our responsibilities no matter how we feel can help us feel better in the end. This works for me, and it may be helpful for some of you.

  • #11842
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Although the past may be painful, focusing all of our energy and time on it won’t be helpful when trying to move towards the future.

  • #11843
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Never stop trying to improve yourself and be better in all aspects of your life. We can always be better at something and grow in different ways.

  • #11844
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Being able to step out of our comfort zones will allow us to do so much in life. By being in situations that may make us feel uncomfortable, we can learn to appreciate different things, and even develop a liking for them. Try new things, and explore what life has to offer.

  • #11845
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Being positive in life and always looking at the bright side of things is not a bad quality to have. In fact, it is one of the things that has helped me get through some of the hardest days in my life, because I have been able to be hopeful for a better tomorrow. Choose to be positive today!

  • #11846
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Never let anyone in life treat you like you aren’t worthy or good enough. Even though we aren’t perfect, we are all deserving of a good life, love, happiness, and respect.

  • #11847
    Luz.Feliz
    Luz.Feliz
    Participant

    Trying to fit in and be just like everyone else can be a tiring task that can often lead to frustration. Nevertheless, when we can get to a point where we can acknowledge that we don’t have to be anything more than our true selves, we can focus all of our energy on being our best selves.

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